Double Standards..


So tonite I was watching Kandi from RHOA Internet show and they were discussing the topic about "double standards". Well they really didn't speak about what a double standard really is. Basically saying a man can have his cake and eat it to, but when it comes to women we can't. A man can sleep around with multiple women and be considered 'the man', but when women sleep around with multiple men they are considered or labeled as a 'hoe'. Why is this?? I agree there is a double standard, but it has always been that way and it will always be that way. Well anyone who knows me I speak from experiences and I take the time out to listen to both men and women especially when it comes to sex and relationships. As a female, we possessed a special POWER that no man in this world would never ever never ever have. Let me explain, a man could be having sex with a female and when he's done he can immediately get up go and wash his penis off. We as females we have to get a rag or something to clean ourselves off, but that doesn't mean our insides are clean. And therefore we are stuck with all kinds of bacteria sitting inside us. Another reason why there will always be a double standard, a lot of women are abusing their POWER. You have to realize a man don't think with their brains they think with their dick, so when we go around and sleep with multiple men, (especially when you don't use condoms); there is a high risk that you can end up pregnant and not know who the father of your child is. (Hello, Maury!!) Men don't have those problems, if the baby isn't his; they on to the next broad. And according to statistics we as women are the carriers of many diseases, such as Gonorrhea and Chlamydia. We are at higher risk than a male anyday.

Its truly unfortunate that we have to accept is, but ladies we have a gift cherish it, use your POWER wisely.

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